Reasons to Consider a First Look
1. It gives you an intimate, private moment to be together. A First Look gives you both some time to show your true genuine emotion, to let your guard down, and not be worried about the 100+ guests looking at you as you see each other for the first time. It's a beautiful chance to connect after your busy morning of getting ready and before the rest of the day unfolds. And, this is 'your person' he or she will calm your nerves when they look into your eyes and they give you a big hug at that First Look. I've definitely been told by my couples over the years that they felt so much more relaxed after seeing each other.
2. The gift of time. This is a big one. Your wedding day goes by so fast. The First Look gives you a chance to be together earlier in the day, instead of waiting until ceremony time which generally starts about 4:00 - 5:00 PM. This time together is precious and hopefully private. It just may be the only time you two are alone for the rest of the day. You'll have as much time that is needed to capture gorgeous portraits of the two of you without feeling rushed post ceremony. We would usually schedule 45 minutes to one hour of uninterrupted time with you and your photographer. And most likely, this will open you up to be at your cocktail hour mingling with your friends and family instead of off taking photos. Which brings me to the next reason...
3. Photos. Besides getting all the images you want as a couple, you'll have plenty of time to get bridal party and family photos before the ceremony. Family photos require us getting everyone together and this is not an easy task post ceremony. We are always out chasing down that one family member who decided to hit the bar real quick on his way to photos and was stopped three times to chat with family members on his way back.... And of course this would happen, everyone is so happy to be together and celebrate, it makes perfect sense! But photos must wait for them to get to the photo area. The first look really just opens the day up so that we can then schedule in most group photos before the ceremony too. We would usually plan on about 30 minutes to one hour, depending on the size of your group. These images would happen post-First Look but pre-ceremony.
4. Family and Friends. The guests at your wedding are the most important in your life and you will want to spend time with them on that day. Most of our weddings here in Vermont are destination events for our couple and the guests. Often your guests have traveled some distance to get to your wedding. Your gift to them, the way to show them appreciation for coming all that way on that day, is your time. The first look really opens up your time post ceremony. The first look will give you time to enjoy your guests during cocktails too. You might find you and your photographer decide to use 20 minutes of your cocktail hour for a few more shots but this is so much better than not making it at all and often all images are complete at this point in the day.